All Women's Talk

25 Flirty Text Messages to Send This Valentine's Day ...

By Melissa

Flirty Text messages are the perfect way to let your crush know you want them to be your Valentine this Valentine’s Day! The good thing about flirty text messages are the lack of pressure and awkwardness. If things become awkward you text back with an, “Lol JK” and move on to something else. Having trouble coming up with the perfect flirty text message for your Valentine’s crush? I've got the top 19 flirty messages to really let your crush know how you feel!

1 U + Me = <3

How cute is this? Let your crush know that you “less than 3 him.” He is bound to respond with a smiley face or his own equally witty and enduring message. It’s cute, simple, and to the point, and that’s why I love it.

2 Just Thinking about You This Morning, Happy Valentine’s Day!

This Valentine’s Day flirty text message is a little coy. It could come off as an innocent, “Hello” but if your crush likes you as well he is bound to find the deeper meaning behind it. Guys sometimes miss the subtle hints we give when we like them. This is a great text to test the waters and see where his head is at!

3 It’s 2:14 What’s Your Valentine’s Wish? I Know What Mine is…

You know how some people believe in making wishes at 11:11, this is the same idea but uses the date of Valentine’s Day, as the magic wish granting time. The key is to send the text at exactly 2:14. Of course he is going to want to know what your Valentine’s wish is. Now you have to decide what you want to tell him.

4 I Think You Stole My Heart…

You can start this flirty text off by asking him if he is a criminal, or telling him you are going to call the cops on him. When he asks why, you can accuse him of stealing your heart. It might be a little cheesy, but may also make for a good laugh.

5 This Movie Would Be so Much Better if You Were Here

Follow this text up with, “What are you doing for Valentine’s Day?” It let’s your crush know you want to spend time with him and enjoy his company. It also plants the seed that a Valentine’s date would be the perfect opportunity to make plans.

6 Blank Text

Send a mysterious text with no message at all. He will probably text something back asking why there isn’t a message. If it were me, I would pretend to not know what he was talking about and tell him he doesn’t need to make excuses to text me; he can send me a message anytime. Or you could always send back a flirty text to let him know that you're interested and maybe want to find out about his V-Day plans! Of course, you can play it off however you want.

Chynalbrown is cute...

7 I Lost My Teddy Bear, Can I Cuddle with You?

Oh, I love this. I love cuddles. Why wouldn’t he want to be your teddy bear? I think this text is too awesome for any guy to resist. If he is a super thoughtful, he may just buy you a new teddy bear to cuddle with when he’s not around.

8 I Had the Most Incredible Dream about You Last Night…

Here is a flirty text good for any time, not just Valentine’s Day. Be ready to share the details of your dream. If you didn’t have a dream, make one up. Don’t make the mistake of coming on too strong. A dream where he gets to be the hero saving your from great danger maybe better than the details of something hot and steamy.

anonymous the dream one actually works! i told my crush i ha...

9 Hey Valentines, How’s Your Day Going?

Here is another simple, no pressure text. You let him know he’s your special Valentine’s this year, but your real question is about his day. Give him a chance to take the lead from there and see where it goes.

10 Will You Be My Valentine?

Be direct. Send a flirty text telling your crush you want him to be yours. Chance are you have a pretty good idea how he feels about you, so what do you have to lose?

11 Photo Text

I'm not suggesting you send anything risque, but a photo of yourself smiling, or being silly, will brighten his day!

12 143

Back in the 90s, before everyone had cell phones, they had pagers. 143 was beeper code for "I love you" ... test your sweetheart's pager-code knowledge by sending this sweet old-school text.

13 A Movie Quote

If you and your crush/sweetheart have a favorite movie, send him a text with one of the lines from the movie, and see if he gets it. Just about anything from The Princess Bride would be good, really.

14 Roses Are Red, Violets Are Blue, We Should Kiss, Let Me Know if You Think so Too...*wink Wink*

This is a super flirty text to send not only to your boyfriend but also to the guy you've been totally crushing on for months now!

15 Roses Are Red, Violets Are Blue, and a Night out with My Guy is Long Overdue ;)

Perfect for sending your boyfriend this Valentine's Day! Let him know that you're up for spending the day and/or night with him through this flirty text.

16 As Your Valentine, I Wanted You to Know That You Don't Have to Get Me Anything. However, if You Insist, Please Send All Candy Hearts, Chocolate, Roses and Presents to (enter Address Here)

This is a super funny and cute text to send and bound to make him smile when he reads it! If you're doing it for a laugh and just to be cute, you might wanna let him know afterwards that you don't really expect all those things...or do you?!

17 V-Day? Try U+Me Day!

If you want to send a text that's short, sweet and gets to the point, this is the way to go! This is a super sweet Valentine's Day text that lets them know you're thinking about them!

18 I Was Too Scared to Ask You before, but on Valentine’s Day, You Can’t Say No! Will You Be Mine, Forever?

This is a super cute way of expressing your love for your boyfriend on Valentine's Day! How can he say no to that?!

19 If I Could Open My Heart for You, You’d See How Much I Love You!

This text is perfect for those who are so madly in love with their partner and who find it super hard to put it into words!

20 If I Could Measure My Love for You, the Oceans of the World Wouldn’t Suffice!

This text is adorable! It shows not only how much you love them, but also how much they mean to you.

21 Valentine’s Day is Here and All I Want to Say is That I Love You

Keep it super simple with this text on Valentine's Day! Opt for this one if you like getting to the point and don't want to get into all the sappy love quotes out there!

22 To the World You May Be One Person, but to Me You Are the World

Tell them just how much they mean to you with this super romantic text on Valentine's Day!

23 This Day May Come Once in a Year, but My Feelings Will Become Stronger than Ever

This one tells your love that your feelings for them are the same, no matter what day of the year it is. In other words, you're not just saying it because it happens to be V-Day!

24 My World is a Brighter Place Because of You. Happy Valentine’s Day

If they contribute to your life in a way that makes it seem so much brighter and happier than ever before, let them know with this text!

25 Distances May Separate Us, but Our Hearts Beat as One!

If you're thinking about a special someone who's not physically with you, let them know you're thinking of them despite the distance between you!

Flirty text are fun and innocent and a great way to let your crush know you are interested in him on Valentine’s Day. It's easy to send a flirty text, and you can keep things cute and casual while still letting someone know you like them. Do you have some other good ideas for flirty text to send on Valentine’s Day? Please share your ideas!

This article was written in collaboration with editor Jennifer Knightstep and updated by Lucy Rebecca.

Please rate this article





Readers questions answered