There are rules for texting your crush to avoid it becoming a minefield of mistakes that simply put him off. Do you wait for him to text back before you send another text? Do you blow up his phone to show him how much you like him? Guys don't communicate as often or in the same way that girls do so it's good to know the do's and don'ts of texting your crush. Here they are.
1 Do: Keep Track of Who Texts Who First
If you find yourself always being the one to initiate conversation, take a step back and realize he shouldn’t think you’re head over heels. The rules for texting your crush means having a bit of restraint.
2 Don’t: Respond in 2 Seconds
Even if you did actually see the text right that second, take a solid five minutes before replying. It’ll make him think you’re not at his beck and call just staring at your phone for hours a day hoping his name will pop up on the screen.
3 Don’t: Being Overly Flirtatious
It’s not a bad idea to give hints, but limit it to that, at least in the beginning. Again, less power to him is more power to you.
When it comes to texting your crush, it is important to remember that less is more. Being overly flirtatious in text messages can often come off as desperate or pushy. It is best to give subtle hints and let your crush come to the conclusion that they are interested in you.
When you are texting your crush, keep it light and fun. Don’t be too forward or aggressive. Ask questions that will get to know your crush on a deeper level. Show interest in their passions and hobbies. This will help to create a connection between the two of you.
Avoid sending too many text messages in a row. Give your crush some space to respond. If they don’t respond right away, don’t take it personally. Everyone has their own pace when it comes to texting.
It is also important to remember that texting can be misinterpreted. Make sure you use proper grammar and spelling. Avoid using abbreviations or slang. This will help to ensure that your crush understands your messages.
When texting your crush, make sure to keep it positive. Compliment them and make them feel good. Avoid talking about negative topics or getting into arguments. This can ruin the connection that you are trying to build.
4 Don’t: Send “those” Emojis…even as a Joke
Getting straight to the point is something all of us like to do, but in this specific scenario, you don’t want to give him the wrong idea. If you want something real and that lasts, don’t go there right away.
5 Do: Use “nicknames” as a Joke
This one is acceptable and can be quite effective if used in moderation. Words like “honey,” “sweetheart”, or “baby” can totally be used as a light flirting mechanism.
6 Do: Make Him Wait the Same Amount of Time He Makes You Wait
If you’re in the middle of a solid half hour of conversation and he randomly doesn’t text back for ten minutes, don’t hesitate to do the same to him.
7 Don’t: Use Capital Letters in Every Text
Seeming overly excited can be frustrating to guys, especially since they don’t like all the drama that comes with it.
8 Do: Use His Name
Everybody finds it more personal when their name is used in conversation. And if he does this with you, that’s a good sign, as well.
9 Don’t: Lie to Make Yourself Seem More Interesting
This is a must NOT do because it will come back to hurt you if you do get into a relationship in the future.
10 Do: Ask Questions to Show Interest
It’s a great strategy to make the other person talk about themselves or their interests. It makes them comfortable.
11 Don’t: Be Afraid to Bridge Deeper Conversations
But don’t do it right off the bat. Find a way to maneuver the conversation into what you want to talk about after a while of making him talk about himself.
12 Don’t: Shy Away from Face-to-face Interactions
If you don’t see him on a regular basis, you might want to consider asking him to “hang out,” even if it is with a group of people to start. If you don’t know anyone in common, this can be difficult, but that might be a good reason to get some alone time.
13 Do: Be the One to Cut off the Conversation Sometimes
This is great because it makes him know you have a life outside of him.
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