15 Tell Tale Signs Your Relationship is over for Girls Afraid of the Inevitable π ...

As hard as it is, sometimes we just need to accept that a relationship is over and move on. Faiza gives you 15 signs to know when it's just not working out anymore. Thanks Faiza!
When in love, we are looking through rose-colored glasses, βLa Viena Rousse.β Sometimes weβre so blinded by them that we ignore those very clear signs that a relationship is caput. We do our best to overlook the obvious in place of the positivesβthat are slowly fading into negatives. You continue to invest your time and emotions into what has become a one-sided relationship, because he hasnβt said those two words we dread hearing: βItβs over!β Heβs doing things to drive you away without actually saying youβre done! So, what are the signs we women should NOT overlook? Here you go:
If he makes hurtful comments repeatedly and isn't bothered by your tears, it's very much over.
This point was generously submitted by one of our readers, Daisha Raymond Garcia. Thanks Daisha! Feel free to contribute your own point at the end of the post. We'd love to hear from you!
If you find yourself saying that βHeβs not smiling, not happy, and heβs just not the person I remember he was when we first met,β itβs most likely an indication that itβs over.
You remember the times he used to be very attentive. He used to always text, call, Skype, or email you and now...crickets. Youβre the one planning outings, most of which he flakes out on. You have to initiate all texts and calls because heβs not doing it. This is usually a pretty clear sign that he doesnβt care the way he did anymore.
Heβs no longer talking about the direction your relationship is going in because in his mind itβs already over. Youβre waiting for a memo that heβs never going to send out. Instead heβs attempting to use that as a way of saying, βWeβre doneβ without actually saying it.
Heβs no longer including you in anything as if he has no attachment to you. Decisions to do anything and go anywhere no longer include taking you into consideration, but rather doing whatever it is he wants to do. In other words, when he begins to act like a single man, this is a sure sign a woman should head for the hills and take her heart with her.
Body language tells us many things about a person. A brow lift, lip smack, a lean, a stroke, a gaze, etcβ¦ these are all signs that heβs into you. But body language can also tell us when a man is just not that into you. An obvious sign is that he avoids any intimacy at all. If heβs not holding your hand, holding you, touching you, itβs a sure sign itβs over.
When he's picking fights with you about everything and anything, it's usually a sign that the end is near. Most will argue that heβs frustrated and has something on his mind, but if any of the other above signs coincide with this one, then the only thing on his mind is getting you out of it!
This is one thing I tell every single woman who asks for relationship advice. Itβs something that, if had I followed it, I would have avoided my very own heartbreak. You know when something is over because every part of your being says it is. Trust your gut. It rarely steers you wrong.
If you argue fairly often about money issues, what movie to see, etc. thatβs one thing, but if he starts putting you down then itβs time to go. If this happens while youβre in the company of family or friends, itβs also a sure sign that things are pretty much over between the two of you. No one should treat you like this, especially while youβre hanging out with other people.
If he cancels on you and you think to yourself, βIβm so glad I donβt have to hang out with him tonight,β then you really need to consider ending things. You shouldnβt drag your relationship on if you would rather spend your night alone than be with him.
This may not be so obvious at first, but if some of these other signs are in the mix then it may be a sign to call it quits with your current relationship. When you start flirting and making more guy friends, ending it is always the right thing to do before you cheat on your boyfriend. Donβt make it any worse than it already is.
Yes, to some this may sound like a good thing. However, if this is the only good thing you have going on in your relationship then it may be time to say goodbye. You donβt talk to each other, share any common interests and only make an effort to have sex because itβs there. This is no longer a relationship, so do the right thing because you know that inside, you donβt feel right about it anymore.
Does your boyfriend tell you what to wear, who you can hang out with, and what time you need to be home? This doesnβt sound like a relationship anyone should be in, so why are you keeping yourself in this one? When you met him he was sweet and loved your friends, but now that he has you things have changed. Well then, so has this relationship status!
Has he introduced you to a new girl βfriendβ of his recently? Well, like I said about you making new guy friends, itβs okay in a healthy relationship, but not in a broken one. If things havenβt been going well between the two of you and he all of a sudden has a new βfriend,β then it may be time for you to get a new βfriendβ too and dump this one!
He was a great guy, everyone loved him during the first two years of your relationship. However, now everywhere you go together things seem awkward and he tells your friends weird or mean things about you. If your friends no longer like this guy, then it may be time for you to no longer like him.
After an argument or disagreement, have you become the one to always apologize even when you know youβre not wrong? If he constantly puts the blame on you and never says the words, βIβm sorry,β well then you tell him, βNo, Iβm sorry because this relationship is over!β...the end!
REMEMBERβ¦ Most women donβt want to admit that something is over, especially when it comes to a relationship, out of fear of being alone, starting over, losing someone you love. Nothing is harder than being in a one-sided relationship and the hardest part about these particular relationships is the part that tells you to leave. When heβs giving you any of these indications that itβs over without actually saying it, you must remember that you need and deserve to be in a relationship where you feel special, appreciated, loved and most importantly, valued. Donβt wait for the words, look for the signs. I learnt the hard way that love is indeed a battlefield, but that doesnβt mean we have to pick up arms and fight a losing battle. Sometimes the best form of this type of warfare is to simply walk away. How did you know your relationship was over?