2. Don’t Try Too Hard

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It can be so easy when we are nervous to try a little harder to make a guy want us. For instance, we might decide to spend extra time getting ready, and dress ourselves up all the time extra special. Or, we may send him cards, texts, or other things to let him know we’re thinking about him. Or, maybe you’re like me, and you tend to express yourself through your words.

If so, don’t overload him with how much you’re into him. You can let him know in subtle ways without chasing him or trying too hard. Guys like to know that girls are relaxed around them and comfortable enough around them to remain low key. They also tend to like a girl who is a little shy, so don’t be too overbearing at first. Guys hate a nag, and a whiny girl, so never, ever resort to either of these habits and expect to get positive results.

Don’t Appear Too High Maintenance

Comments:

Kat_With_a_K
I don't know you guys... The jealousy thing seems like a double standard. Let's have a little respect. If you don't want him to try these on you, don't try it on him.
maik
From a man's point of view all is right and good except from 4,5 and 16: Do the opposite of what the article says 4: After the date a man NEVER calls if he does he is soft and seeking approval. When ...
Jane
It's quite difficult if he's married and so are you...
krystallavp
True
Elizabeth Erol
Every subject in that topic right now is the kind of relationship that I have with my boyfriend. I felt like I've accomplished a lot as a women . We 'be been together for 4 years now and people are su...
lauren45
Recently I have a problem with a guy because he said he likes a chase and I basically haven't been able to give him that. The other night he wasn't making any moves so I felt like I had to and he didn...
Cherrierune
My situation is a bit strange he will act sorta shy in public like during school but alone he gives me a lot of attention. Ufgh. And he doesn't always text back. Merp.
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