23 Coping Tips πŸ“– for Girls Dealing with an Insecure 😟 Boyfriend πŸ’ ...


Insecurity can cause a lot of issues in a relationship and seems to have already led you here to seek out ways for how to deal with an insecure boyfriend. An insecure guy can tend to be overly jealous, make ridiculous accusations, constantly bombard you with calls and texts, or become moody at a moment's notice. If you feel like your guy is worth the extra effort to help him get past his insecurities in the relationship, then here are tips on how to deal with an insecure boyfriend to help you out!

1. Examine Your Behavior

The first thing you should do on how to deal with an insecure boyfriend is look at yourself. See if there are any ways that you may be contributing to his insecurities. Do you flirt with others? Do you do things to make him jealous? Do you ignore him? Make sure you're not giving him reasons to distrust you which may be adding to his insecurities. If you are 100% sure that you are not contributing to how he's acting at all, then stand your ground. Make sure you're not giving up your friends or your life to make your guy feel more secure when you've given him no reason to distrust you.

Give Him Subtle Reassurance


ChloΓ© Evelyn Lamb
I cheated on my old boyfriends and went out drinking and lying and telling guys i was single and then I would freak at them for talking to a girl talk about unhealthy I look forward to a future buildi...
my ex was horrible and abusive. both physical, verbal, and emotionally...thank god we broke up. :/
I was with an abusive, psycho, insecure bf for 3 years. He controlled me, and told me that no one would ever love me as much as he did and leaving him would be my biggest regret. It took me 3 years t...
My boyfriend is insecure about my past. He thinks I still a not able to let go because of pictures of my past he saw that I forgot I had honestly. He also thought that every guy I had in my fb and twi...
Heather Jensen
Oh, that's a tough one. Have you tried to talk to him about it?
Heather Jensen
Aww! That's awesome! Thank you for the comment Mary!
Heather Jensen
Oh no! I'm so sorry that happened to you!
Franchesca Toledo Spetz
My ex turned verbally abusing it did not end well
My boyfriend is very insecure and ignorant. I try to bring him out with friends but he wants my attention 24/7. I can't have fun with my friends or him. I'm split! I don't date much. He was my first k...
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