23 Coping Tips πŸ“– for Girls Dealing with an Insecure 😟 Boyfriend πŸ’ ...


Insecurity can cause a lot of issues in a relationship and seems to have already led you here to seek out ways for how to deal with an insecure boyfriend.

An insecure guy can tend to be overly jealous, make ridiculous accusations, constantly bombard you with calls and texts, or become moody at a moment's notice.2

If you feel like your guy is worth the extra effort to help him get past his insecurities in the relationship, then here are tips on how to deal with an insecure boyfriend to help you out!

1. Examine Your Behavior

The first thing you should do on how to deal with an insecure boyfriend is look at yourself.

See if there are any ways that you may be contributing to his insecurities.

Do you flirt with others?

Do you do things to make him jealous?

Do you ignore him?

Make sure you're not giving him reasons to distrust you which may be adding to his insecurities.

If you are 100% sure that you are not contributing to how he's acting at all, then stand your ground.

Make sure you're not giving up your friends or your life to make your guy feel more secure when you've given him no reason to distrust you.2

Give Him Subtle Reassurance


Heather Jensen
Good! I'm so glad that you liked the post and that you are ready to grow.
ChloΓ© Evelyn Lamb
I cheated on my old boyfriends and went out drinking and lying and telling guys i was single and then I would freak at them for talking to a girl talk about unhealthy I look forward to a future building a healthy relationship one day thanks for the tips its also pretty informative on how to be a caring partner
my ex was horrible and abusive. both physical, verbal, and emotionally...thank god we broke up. :/
I was with an abusive, psycho, insecure bf for 3 years. He controlled me, and told me that no one would ever love me as much as he did and leaving him would be my biggest regret. It took me 3 years to leave him, and I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life!
My boyfriend is insecure about my past. He thinks I still a not able to let go because of pictures of my past he saw that I forgot I had honestly. He also thought that every guy I had in my fb and twitter scoping either were something of mine in the past of that I was talking to them. He thinks that when ever I'm not with him I'm talking to other guys or go out and thinks I'm always lying. I love him very much and I don't want to let him go but when he gets on those unexpected mood swings he can get verbally offensive not insulting me but accusing me of things that are not true. I just don't know how long I can take it :'(
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