Getting your crush's number is a huge deal. Of course, the stress isn't over as soon as you get his digits, because you still have to come up with a clever opening line. But don't waste too much time thinking about what you should say, and just talk to him! If you need ideas, here are a few "first texts" to send him after you get his number:
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1. I Know I'm Breaking Code by Not Waiting at Least 24 Hours, but I Couldn't Wait to Talk to You
Why force yourself to wait to talk to him? If you want to hear from him, send that text.
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Sure, standard dating advice might tell you to play it cool, but if the conversation is flowing and the chemistry is undeniable, why wait? Trust your instincts—if you feel a strong connection, it's okay to break the "rules." After all, authenticity is infectious, and showing that you're genuinely interested can be incredibly attractive. Just be sure to keep it light and easygoing; you don't want to overwhelm him. Sending a simple, "I had a great time talking to you today, couldn't wait to say hi again!" could be the perfect way to keep that spark fizzling.
2. Save This Number. It’s the Most Important One You’ll Ever Get
Start off flirty by saying something along these lines.
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When you get a guy’s number, it can be exciting but also nerve-wracking. You want to make sure you send the perfect text that will intrigue him and make him want to respond. The key is to be flirty without being too forward. Start off by sending something like “Hey, I’m so glad I got your number. I just had to text you.” This will let him know that you’re interested in getting to know him better.
Once you’ve initiated the conversation, keep it light and fun. Ask him questions about his interests and hobbies, and make sure to keep the conversation going. If you’re feeling bold, you can even send him a funny meme or GIF. This will show him that you’re interested in him and that you have a sense of humor.
When you’re getting to know each other, avoid talking about serious topics like religion or politics. Instead, focus on getting to know each other better and having fun. Ask him about his favorite movies or music, and share some of your own interests. This will help you create a connection and deepen your bond.
Frequently asked questions
A good first text can be a simple 'Hi [His Name], it's [Your Name]. It was great meeting you today!' Keep it light and friendly.
Yes, it's okay. If you feel comfortable and had a good initial connection, a quick text can show you're interested.
You can add a wink or smiley face emoji, or mention something you talked about with a playful twist.
There's no strict rule. If you're excited and want to reach out, go ahead and send that first text!
Give him some time as he might be busy. If he doesn't reply after a day or two, you can send another casual text.
It's usually better to build a bit of rapport first, but if you're both clearly interested, a casual invitation might work.
Keep it short and sweet. Long texts might be overwhelming for the first message.
Yes, using emojis can be a fun way to show your personality and make the text feel more personal.
Typos happen to everyone. You can send a quick correction with a light-hearted comment and move on in the conversation.
Keep the tone casual and upbeat. Express that you enjoyed meeting him without putting too much pressure on the interaction.
3. Just Wanted to Text You, so You Had My Number, Too
This is short and sweet and to the point. It'll make you sound casual.
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Sending a message like this puts the ball in his court, but in the smoothest, most nonchalant way possible. It suggests that you're low-key interested without being overbearing. Plus, it paves the path for future conversations. If he's into you, he now has the perfect opportunity to reach out. It's the perfect balance of friendly and flirty without adding any pressure. It's like saying "there you go, I'm open for a chat" without actually having to spell it out. Just lean back and watch for that notification to pop up!
4. How do You Expect Me to Have Fun if You Aren't Here?
This is an adorable way to say hello to him. Plus, it'll start a conversation, because he'll be wondering where you are.
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This text is a perfect way to start a conversation with the person you just got the number from. It's cute, playful, and will make him wonder where you are. It's also a great way to show your interest in him. If you're looking for a way to break the ice, this is the perfect way to do it. Plus, it'll make him think of you when you're not around. With this text, you can start a conversation that could potentially lead to something more.
5. Why do I Have This Number?
If you like to play mind games, you can ask him this question to throw him off.
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Being a bit cheeky, you could text something like, "Just found this number in my coat pocket. Who am I planning our next adventure with?" It puts the ball in his court to impress you with a response that's just as witty and engaging. Plus, it's a great way to gauge his sense of humor and start an intriguing conversation. Don't forget to follow up with a playful wink or a mysterious emoji to keep things light and fun.
6. I Enjoyed Our Conversation Today. We Should Continue It Next Weekend
You two must've been having a great convo if it led to him giving you his number. That's why this opening line will work wonders.
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When the conversation flows as smoothly as a perfect cup of coffee, you know there's something special brewing. If he's taken the initiative to pass you his digits after a delightful exchange, he's definitely into the vibe as much as you are. Sending him a text that mirrors that sentiment is sure to keep that spark alive. Mentioning a future get-together not only shows your interest but also gives him something to look forward to. So, keep it light, keep it flirty, and let him know you're already anticipating round two of your engaging banter.
7. Don't Go Deleting This Number. It's the Hot Girl You Met Today
This is a flirty way to tell him who's texting him.
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This playful text instantly sets a coy and confident tone, letting him know that you not only caught his eye but also his interest. It's a cheeky reminder of your encounter, suggesting that you're someone he won't want to forget anytime soon. And, of course, it's a fun way to spark his curiosity and make him smile as he saves your number. Just picture the smirk on his face when he realizes the "hot girl" from earlier is bold enough to say it like it is!
8. Hope You’re Having a Divine Day
If you don't have much to say, just tell him you hope he's doing well.
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Sometimes a dash of positivity is all it takes to make someone's day a bit brighter. A simple, "Hey, just wanted to wish you a fantastic day ahead!" can go a long way. It's cheerful, non-committal, and opens up the door for him to share how his day is going if he feels like it. It's a sweet nudge that shows you're thinking about him without overwhelming him with expectation—a perfect little sprinkle of warmth.
9. Is It Too Soon for Casual Texting?
This is a cute little line that should get a laugh out of him.
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Sending the first text message can always feel a bit daunting, but humor is a fantastic icebreaker. If you've interacted enough to get a sense of his humor, a playful text that's light-hearted can set a positive tone for your conversation. Remember, keep it friendly and engaging—an inside joke or a funny observation makes it personal and flirty without coming on too strong. You're aiming to start a dialogue, so crafting a message that invites a response is key. End it with a cheeky emoji to keep the tone breezy!
10. I Finally Watched That Show You've Been Talking about
This is a great way to start a long conversation. Just make sure you actually watch the show, because lying won't get you far.
11. It’s Too Bad You Had to Leave. We Didn’t Have Time to Make out
If you're brave when it comes to flirting, say something bold like this.
12. I Forgot to Ask This Super Important Question: do You like Harry Potter?
It's best to keep things light and playful, so he knows how much fun you are.
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Sure, it sounds like a random icebreaker, but knowing if he's a fan of the magical world of Hogwarts can give you an instant topic to gush about – it's like waving a wand and opening a door to a shared universe! Plus, whether he's a brave Gryffindor, a smart Ravenclaw, a loyal Hufflepuff, or a cunning Slytherin, you get a playful peek into his personality. Get ready to plan your next date at a Quidditch match or a cozy night with butterbeer and the beloved movies! 🧙♂️⚡
13. You Look like You'd Be a Great Kisser
Go big or go home, right?
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Boldly flirting can be exciting, and letting him know you think he's got killer kissing skills can spark his interest instantly. Be ready for his curiosity to be piqued, as he might just ask you to prove your intuition. This shows confidence and a playful spirit, both attractive traits that can lead to interesting conversations. Just remember, with a text like this, you're definitely dialing up the flirtation, so be prepared for a flirty response!
14. I Could See You Sleeping in Class Today
If you two see each other frequently, make a comment about how you saw him sleeping in class, or even about how hot he looked.
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Sure, it might be a touch on the teasing side, but a playful text about spotting him snoozing can break the ice and show your sense of humor. Try, "Caught you dozing off today. Dreaming of me by any chance?" It opens up the conversation in a flirty way and invites him to respond with wit. Plus, it might even lead to an inside joke between you two, setting the stage for further banter.
15. Your Last Tweet Was Hilarious
Social media can save you! Use it to start a conversation.
16. I Can't Stop Thinking about the Movie We Saw the Other Day
Reference something that you two have done together in the past. Then you can laugh about the memory.
17. It Was Nice to See You Today. We Should Hang out More Often, Don't You Think?
There's nothing wrong with being blunt. If you want to ask him out, then go for it!
If you start your conversation by using one of these lines, it'll make him want to hear more from you. What other ideas do you have for ladies who want to send an adorable first text to their crush?
Comments
Taylor: Yeah, these look like things you'd either text a hookup or something a teen would text her crush.
Mooliamoo: This seemed less of a "first text" to me and more of just a random cute thing to say to start a conversation.... Lol
Shiggie: If you like going bowling maybe ask Him to go bowling with you and Have A Drink with you no Sex do get laid
Alysha: @SunShine Gurl I agree
Esma: What about a simple and short " Hello " text ?
Tamtajologua: @Olivia yeah I think so too! Isn't this a little too clingy?
Olivia: I feel like these sound desperate
thestrangebeginning: No offense, but some of these sound desperate and stalker-ish. Even I wouldn't respond to some of them. Also, I'm pretty sure that you wouldn't be able to refer back to a date you had if you just got their number.
Marcyallen_: Dean!!
Girlhacks234: I agree
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