8 Situations in Which People Forgive Cheating ...

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There are many bad situations that could put our marriages or relationships at risk.

Cheating is, of course, one of them and, although some people forgive cheating and choose to try hard for their chance to have a “happily ever after” for all the right reasons, others do it for all the wrong ones.

Now, I’m not here to judge which ones are wrong and which ones are right, so I’m going to give you a list of 8 situations in which people forgive cheating and you know you can always correct me and add some of your own experiences and opinions.

1. Fear of the Unknown

For some, the fear of facing the world outside the comfy relationship is much greater than the pain caused by cheating.2

They have been with their partner for years and stepping out on the dating market again feels like the most difficult thing in the world.

I know exactly how this works and, believe me, it can happen to everyone of us.

Knowing that you won’t see the familiar face and/or hear the familiar voice when you wake up the next morning is kind of scary.

Especially if you’ve been with that person for so long that you don’t even remember what your life used to be like before you met him/her.

Children and/ or Traditions

Comments:

Sheila
Hi Ginger, Thank you for sharing your story. It takes a lot to be able to forgive and more importantly forget an episode like that and I'm glad you are making it work for you. Good luck to you both! :)
Ginger
When my boyfriend cheated on me, I stayed on because I felt like I couldn't do without him. But after a certain point, it got to me and I gave up. 2 months later, he came back and he apologized profusely and he sincerely wanted the relationship back. Now, it's been a year since that episode, and nothing of that sort has been repeated. We're stronger than ever and I owe it to time.
Lawrence
Well there are reasons as u mentioned of,desire to work things out, co-business relationship but lets think of it- How about this- in a situation when the cheated has every evidence of the cheaters action but still the cheater wont accept his or her wrongs and they are left with these circumstances as mentioned above. I would rather think a spade is a spade. Our reasons would make sense in many ways but how much time do we have to live on this earth to go through all this heartaches. Lets remember life is a journey and wherever it takes you do accept it and move on . We all worship a common GOD and we all know the rule from time immemorial.
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