2. Friends with Benefits

A lot of people say you can't be friends with benefits without someone developing feelings, which does tend to be true.

But what is going on before those feelings are involved is simply a platonic need to fill ones craving for sex.

If you both find each other attractive, and can turn each other on, then why not enjoy the benefits?

When the feelings do become involved it becomes more then just a physical act.

But again, they are feelings and emotions which is what love is.

So just remember if you want to enjoy the friends part, stick to keeping a clear vision that it is not a relationship!

Remember, having fears of being intimate is something that everyone deals with.

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Comments:

Cindy Pham
It was confused about sex and love, but the main point is feeling. I think when u love someone is not sex only but feeling u have for each other. Not feeling then the sex just action to release u r better not without it
DuctTape & Bubblegum
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Aiden
My old friends with benefits and me don't talk anymore it just sort of ended. I was tired of him just calling me up for sex whenever I was busy and expecting me to just go right over there do it and leave.and I told him I think I loved him and now we both found other people.. the other day he said he was sorry for his previous actions and didn't text back :p
Heather
That's awesome Kay! I'm so glad that it worked out for you!
Kay
I had a friend with benefits. We were just having casual sex for five years. I fell in love with him but didn't think he felt the same way. One day he just out the blue told me he loved me. Now we're a couple :)
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