4. Donโ€™t Be Vindictive

If your intention of staying in the relationship is to inflict pain back on your partner, then please get out now!

I assure you that you will get no gratification from this.

You will only be more emotionally drained than you already were.

Vindictive behavior isnโ€™t always intentional, but sometimes you just become this mean heartless partner because you are now jaded, so stay aware of your actions.

I know what you're thinking.

Am I just supposed to let it go?

No, of course not, but if you want a working relationship sometimes staying silent is better than spewing venom in your words.2

So no cheating on him to get even.

That's not fair to anyone involved and I assure you that the relationship will never last if this occurs!

Donโ€™t under Value Yourself


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