4. Spend Less Time with His Family

If your boyfriend is a family man, it's going to be hard to pull him away from them.

There's nothing wrong with telling him to rely less on his mother, but it's unfair to ask him to stop spending so much time with his mother.

After all, she was the first woman in his life.

Quit His Job


Bunch of prudes. All men watch porn. And if you tell them not to then that'll more than likely make them want to do it more. If you're not with him and he's horny what would you rather him do, watch porn or watch and touch and cheat with a real woman. πŸ˜• seriously. I honestly can't get my head around some of these comments. When I'm not with my guy i watch it almost everyday.
If you think your man doesnt watch porn your sooo naive and women can enjoy porn to btw not everyone ends up an addict which is fairly obvious given the billions not millions of people that watch it
I strongly agree with KaRen. Well said...as we can see there is difference of opinion amongst us women regarding porn. If it is so important for those women who think so strongly against porn and wont accept their male partners to watch it in the relationship...its their own priority and business..but if him not watching porn is so important issue you then its better to clarify with the man before you agree to be his girlfriend rather than making him change his life choices which he has a total right on his life what he should and should not do..not everything he does has to be scientifically proven to be healthy as long as he is an adult and makes his informed choice understanding the pros and cons of the things he is choosing to do. There is nothing wrong in sharing the views and expressing opinions but when someone thinks they have right over other person more than other person's own right then that is certainly a red flag. No one has to agree with what I said but I can certainly express my opinion
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