3. You Want to Hug, but He Doesn’t Want to

Nine times out of ten, a woman wants to hug when a man is doing something. Men are solution orientated, and something such as a hug puts him off. Put him in situations where a hug is part of the process.

Put on a movie and hug him on the sofa, have him hug you in the spoon position in bed or tell him you are a champion wrestler and show him your moves. If the worst comes to the worst, fake like you are choking, and when he goes behind you to give you the Heimlich maneuver, you quickly spin around and hug him.

Lack of Communication


Lil hez
@JP thanks for clearing that up. I think this article sterotyped men. And me personally my man watching porn in a relationship is an absolute not. Sorry but I want a man who respects and values me
(I meant we "can" climax but it's not like before, it's not interesting anymore doing it ourselves. My man touches me better than I do myself and same thing with him towards me. That's why I said we "...
I disagree too. Both me and my bf have big sex drives and we used to masturbate and watch porn before we got together but ever since we're together we honestly haven't felt the need to masturbate AT A...
I agree, the article is mainly great except for the masturbation part. My husband and I talked about that and he doesn't masturbate at all while I do. He also thinks porn is "stupid."
Husna Shahalemi
Neecey I really like majority of the articles that you post. However, when you start generalizing men I don't like it so much. You don't know every single man out there. Not all men masturbate or stare at other women. Thank you.
Totally agree with @Gracie !
The part about all men masturbate really upsets me because I think that's wrong. You cannot generalise a whole sex of people. Just because they're men doesn't mean they're all the same just like not all women are the same so yeah I totally disagree with that 👌
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