8. He Argues More

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Does he seem to start more arguments with you?

Does he nitpick, start little fights, and try to get under your skin?

This might be guilt as well.

However, he might also be trying to push you away.3

He might feel that’s easier than actually talking things out.

He Makes Excuses


@Tiffany Yap, I am so sorry you're going through this. It sounds like he may not be over his ex. He is testing the waters with her while keeping you hanging in the background. Don't let him do that.
@Chloe, I believe you need to give him space. You will push him away if you keep pressuring him. Sometimes people need alone time. Just keep being an amazing girlfriend. Tell him you are there when he needs you and let him rest. He probably is tired a lot. Trust in his words, if he didn't want to be with you forever then he wouldn't say it. It's hard to give him space...just keep yourself busy and reassure him that you'll be around when he is ready.
Tiffany Yap
so I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now. the first 5 months we can chat non stop 24/7. even though thr's nothing to talk,we'll find something to talk about.Though it's crappy stuffs sometimes. But two months ago,he started asking for space. We didn't talk much after that. He even went out to a comic fiesta with his ex gf and some of her female friends. he didn't tell me about it and I was pissed. My best friend then asked him about the fiesta and it got to a point where she asked " She's your ex right? " (the one that went to comic fiesta with him) And it shocked me that he replied " Maybe...I don't know. Don't ask. It's complicated." He doesn't call me sweet names like he used to. When I said " I love you",all he replied was " love ya." I'm starting to question our relationship. I don't know if he stills loves me or not.
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