4. More than Just Caring

Does the caring go a little too far?

Are you now feeling jealous over other people hanging out with your friend?

Are you feeling emotions that are similar to feelings you felt for your partner in the beginning?

This goes beyond just caring, girls and boys, this is turning into an emotional relationship!

You Start to Feel Attached


@Ryan, if its not too late to give you advice, run like the wind. I've learned these married ones are all about themselves and don't care one bit if they use or hurt you. Think this too, is this how you want to find the love of your life? Let her go, if she hits on you again, bite her lip! Just a thought! Seriously tell her to kiss off and find someone that matches her morals, which aren't any, and that would be for her to find that immoral married man who doesn't have one ounce of courage to communicate with his wife, but will screw other women and will jeopardize his wife's health when they sleep together! Hope that answers your question!
Ladies, I need your advice, please. I Had An Affair With A Married Woman Briefly, I had a 3-month affair with a married woman who has a complicated life, to say the least. While it is no excuse for infidelity, she has a bipolar husband and a 3-year-old daughter. She initially told me she was going through a divorce, but was in therapy and looking to move on with her life and that of her daughter. I was skeptical, but very into this woman (and I fell in love with her little girl, too). She decided she was unable to divorce him, despite (allegedly) going through mediation and such. Finally, she told me she couldn't "pull the trigger" and divorce him; she decided to stay and wanted to be friends. While this was difficult to except--because we are in love--I tried to be her friend. Problem was, she was reverting back to her old romantic ways with me: calling me, going to the gym at the same time as me (where we first met), flirting, and then kissing me. The final indignity came when she was kissing and wanting to rekindle things with me, when she said she wants another baby with her husband and they were having sex again (mind you, she is in a sexless/loveless marriage). After playing emotional games on me--and her husband knew about me and threatened to tell me to stay away--I confessed and apologized to her husband, by returning a watch she bought me for Christmas. After that whole situation occurred, she told me to "leave her be, to find peace." I agree; however, she is back at the gym now and I regularly bump into her. Please, I need advice more than judgment. Why do you think she is back? She swore she was leaving the gym for good, and her husband didn't want her returning, but I just started seeing her again in the last 2 weeks. Is she playing mind games? Missing me? Wanting to fish for a part II of the affair? Help!
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