4. Your Choice of Career

Like I said above, your dreams will probably change with time. There's nothing wrong with that. If you do, however, decide to alter your career goals to be with someone, make sure it's something you can live with. If you're someone who has most of her life tied into her career, it's going to be very difficult for you to be happy without it unless you change it for the right reasons. Feeling like you have to or doing it because of pressure are not the right reasons.

Your Choice of Friends


Lilia Antor
I frankly don't understand women who give in too easily. I've known a couple of them who would say something like: I don't wear makeup because he wants me not to. I've been with a control freak, too. ...
Same here jess. Had to tone down my personality to make him happy. It was his issues not mine. These type of men make you feel responsible for their own issues. It's all about taking ownership for what is yours and theirs.
My ex changed me or I did the changes to keep him as loved me so much. End result he finished it anyway. I become depressed as I lost my true self and my own values. I had to give up male friends as h...
Love this. My ex used to try make me change how I dressed and tone down my personality. My current boyfriend encourages me to be me =)
Nazmin Ala
I loved this article, seems like someone has spoken the words I wanted to say!!! Thanks
I totally agree with this!
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